She is married to Nn Benkendorff.
They got married
New York City Directories of 1876 and 1879 list Caroline Benkendorf, widow of William, living at 122 Delancey.
Caroline Shay | ||||||||||||||||||
James[sic] Shay 46, dry goods importer, born Ohio; Anna Shay 45, born New York; Carrie Shay 19, born New York; Susan Shay 18, born New York; Georgiana Shay 15, born New York; Annie Martin 23, domestic servant, born Ireland.
Jefferson B Shay 34, auctioneer, born New York; Anna Shay 31, born New York; Caroline Shay 7, born New York; Susan Shay 5, born New York; Mary Lake 19, born Ireland;
Jefferson Shay 43, merchant, born New York; Anna Shay 43; Walter Shay 20, dry goods merchant, born New York; Caroline Shay 16; Susan Shay 14; Georgeana Shay 9, born New York; Ann Kasting 30, born Ireland; Richard Davy 21, clerk, born New York