(1 Block Row F Lot No. 36)
He had a relationship with Eunice Emily Laing.
Child(ren):
The couple were divorced from 1962 at New Zealand.
Stephen served in World War Two in the New Zealand Army in the North Africa and Italy campaigns. He served as an ammo truck driver (80% causality in N.Africa) so this was a very dangerous job. He never mention this aspect of his service and this only came out at the funeral when the RSL read out his record. They also told the story of how he had an Italian prisoner try to surrender in the desert. As he had no way to take a prisoner and had to get ammo to the front line ASAP he simply kill the man by driving over him saving him dying a slow death of dehydration in the desert (while this may shock us today - it didn't shock any of the vets and often these realities of war are hidden from the general public). Steve had mental issues for the rest of his life. He would seldom speak seriously about the war, but on one occasion he told me how he and a close friend were walking in the countryside at Monte Casino when his friend simply blew up. They had wandered into a mine field and he had to wait 1 1/2 hours for the sappers to get him out while he sat with what remained of his friend. It is easy to understand why he lived his later life alone in a small Mount Eden flat and had mental health issues.
Stephen Norman Hopkins | |||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Eunice Emily Laing |