Finally found her, the man she was married to and her own mother as well!
Unfortunately no children of her own.
She is married to George Barineer.
They got married
She (and her sister Cristine as well, both) settled down in the same vicinity but a few farms down the road, while the rest of the family did so at their own farm in Pittsford Township, Monroe County, NY).
They found jobs as domestics respectively at: the Alvin E. Nye farm and the Eber Stone farm, (see: U.S. Census 1860, for the town of Pittsford, Monroe County, NY, series: M653, Roll: 786, page: 192, and 38).
However in 2004 I found Sophia by coincidence in the 1880 U.S. Census of Michigan, in Lakeside, Muskegon Co, and her (visiting ?) widowed mother Jane (de Graaf) Bor as well.
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