He has/had a relationship with Francis Philips.
Record for Mary Elizabeth Farmer/ Ancestry.com
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birth date: 17 April 1861 birth place: South Carolina, USA residence date: 1930 residence place: Highland, Greenville, South Carolina, USA Name: John Oscar Weaver/ Ancestry.com
burial place: Campobello, Spartanburg County, South Carolina, USA death date: 20 Jun 1933 death place: Highland, Greenville, South Carolina, United States birth date: 17 April 1861 birth place: South Carolina, USA Name: John Oscar Weaver/ Ancestry.com
Name: John Oscar Weaver residence date: 1880 residence place: Oneal, Greenville, South Carolina, USA birth date: 17 April 1861 birth place: South Carolina, USA/ Ancestry.com