She is married to Herman Pettingell.
They got married on July 30, 1850 at Lyndeborough, Hillsborough, New Hampshire, she was 46 years old.Source 10
http://trees.ancestry.com/pt/AMTCitationRedir.aspx?tid=114784053&pid=1501
Mary Cram<br>Gender: Female<br>Birth: Nov 25 1803 - Lyndeborough, Hillsboro, New Hampshire<br>Death: Jan 18 1886<br>Father: Gideon Cram<br>Mother: Amy Putnam<br>Husband: Herman Pettingell<br>Siblings: Daniel Cram, Abigail Cram, Amy Putnam Cram, Lewis Cram, Lois Cram, Luther Cram, Rhoda Emily Cram