She is married to Reuben Reed GAFFIELD.
They got married on October 25, 1843 at Seabrook, New Hampshire, she was 31 years old.Sources 10, 17, 18, 19, 20
Mary Gaffield (born Cram)<br>Gender: Female<br>Birth: Jan 16 1812 - New Hampshire, USA<br>Marriage: Oct 26 1843 - Newbury, Merrimack, NH<br>Residence: 1880 - Boston, Suffolk, Massachusetts, United States<br>Death: Apr 10 1881<br>Burial: Hampton Falls, Rockingham, NH<br>Parents: Benjamin Cram, Rebecca Fletcher Cram (born White)<br>Husband: Reuben Read Gaffield<br>Children: Rebecca Jane Wilder (born Gaffield), Franklin W. Gaffield<br>Siblings: Jonathan Cram, Grace Emery (born Fletcher Cram), Benjamin Fletcher Cram, Daniel W. Cram, Eunice Leavitt Cram
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